Control means you have dominance over all, what ever the situation may be, it is you with the control. Think about it. If YOU, are not in control in a bad situation is a bad thing for you, is it not.
LUCANNA’S class was told they had to do a thesis on the topic of, ”control”. She did her thinking, studies from some books, then thought about, if she was ever in an out of control situation. After doing her week-end homework, this is what she presented to the class.
IF YOU HAVE CONTROL:
This means that YOU, can keep any given situation in control, and nobody gets hurt.
CONTROL IS HEALTHY FOR RELATIONSHIPS:
If you can not control YOUR partner, who does? Is your partner the one with the control and you have NONE? This is very bad for you. This means YOU do not belong in this relationship. OR gain to achieve HALF CONTROL.
HEALTHY CONTROL IS BOTH PARTNERS BEING ABLE TO CONTROL EACH OTHER AT ALL TIMES.
THIS IS CALLED RESPECT FOR EACH OTHER
When you both share equal control your relationship is happy and full of trust.[ I am not saying anything about ill people who act upon their brain-problems and use control as any-classifide-ways to hurt others ].
But having full control of setting up facilities to help the needy is the best control to have in any situation.
When a wife/husband/boyfriend/girlfriend/friend-per say, parents/siblings, are out of control and things are bad. You can’t do nothing about it. The only thing you can do is be as up-set as everyone else.Embarressed.
Situations never getting out of CONTROL are living happy.
I can only tell you Lucyanna won the purplestar. And after class, they were waiting for her. She did not know this, she was busy lost in her pride remembering all the clapping for her. Not a bad thought in her head, just the shine from the sun glowing on the purple star tickling her eyes.
When she turned the corner there they were, still she stayed in her mind until a voice rang out. Surprise stopped her where she was, like a flash she took rise of all around her. She sees there is at least four of them learing at her, something behind her and one approaching her. This is where her eyes went on the dart-out, mapping out any route if any. She would have to run-holding onto her prize, she knew this.
WHO DO YOU THINK WAS IN CONTROL NOW
The four of them, her, the one behind her waiting or closing in? Does she give in? Does she keep her “purple-star”
Does she take over control?
Is she even in control. Right now control will make her happy. So LUCYANNA took it.
Because she took control this enabled her to study her surroundings and hearing that there was indeed one behind her, she understands the one in front of her, is in charge, as the others have not move-but to show themselves to her. She knew her only options were RUN! Rather, fight four disturbed brains, and end-up with a broken purple star and bruises.
HOW OUT OF CONTROL IS FIGHTING: Is there control fighting.
I heard Lucyanna ran like a wind storm.
Her control is the very fact enabling her to take control, she plays basket-ball, base-ball, and racetrack.
At times we need things to enable control. wether it be from expierance, soprts, education or Love. Control is needed to allow relationships to be happy healthy living happy.