WHAT IS CONTROL-RELATIONSHIPS-LIVING HAPPY/ “LUCYANNA & HER THESIS

CONTROL:

Control means you have dominance over all, what ever the situation may be, it is you with the control. Think about it. If YOU,  are not in control in a bad situation is a bad thing for you, is it not.

LUCANNA’S class was told they had to do a thesis on the topic of,  ”control”. She did her thinking, studies from some books, then thought about,  if she was ever in an out of control situation.  After doing her week-end homework, this is what she presented to the class.

Frosty has no control of this situation

Frosty has no control of this situation

IF YOU HAVE CONTROL:

This means that YOU, can keep any given situation in control, and nobody gets hurt.

CONTROL IS HEALTHY FOR RELATIONSHIPS:

If you can not control YOUR partner, who does? Is your partner the one with the control and you have NONE? This is very bad for you. This means YOU do not belong in this relationship. OR gain to achieve HALF CONTROL.

HEALTHY CONTROL IS BOTH PARTNERS BEING ABLE TO CONTROL EACH OTHER AT ALL TIMES.

You rolled me in dirt let me melt in dirt.

You rolled me in dirt let me melt in dirt.

THIS IS CALLED RESPECT FOR EACH OTHER

When you both share equal control your relationship is happy and full of trust.[ I am not saying anything about ill people who act upon their brain-problems and use control as any-classifide-ways to hurt others ].

But having full control of setting up facilities to help the needy is the best control to have in any situation.

When a wife/husband/boyfriend/girlfriend/friend-per say, parents/siblings, are out of control and things are bad. You can’t do nothing about it. The only thing you can do is be as up-set as everyone else.Embarressed.

When you share “equal control”,  with anyone, you hang-out with, these relationships are healthy and happy,  each excepting each other,  trusting everyone has total control:

Situations never getting out of CONTROL are living happy.

I can only tell you Lucyanna won the purplestar.  And after class, they were waiting for her. She did not know this, she was busy lost in her pride remembering all the clapping for her. Not a bad thought in her head, just the shine from the sun glowing on the purple star tickling her eyes.

When she turned the corner there they were, still she stayed in her mind until a voice rang out. Surprise stopped her where she was, like a flash she took rise of all around her. She sees there is at least four of them learing at her, something behind her and one approaching her. This is where her eyes went on the dart-out, mapping out any route if any.  She would have to run-holding onto her prize, she knew this.

WHO DO YOU THINK WAS IN CONTROL NOW

The four of them, her, the one behind her waiting or closing in? Does she give in? Does she keep her “purple-star”

Does she take over control?

Is she even in control. Right now control will make her happy. So LUCYANNA took it.

Because she took control this enabled her to study her surroundings and hearing that there was indeed one behind her, she understands the one in front of her,  is in charge,  as the others have not move-but to show themselves to her. She knew her only options were RUN! Rather,  fight four disturbed brains, and end-up with a broken purple star and bruises.

HOW OUT OF CONTROL IS FIGHTING: Is there control fighting.

I heard Lucyanna ran like a wind storm

Her control is the very fact enabling her to take control, she plays basket-ball, base-ball, and racetrack.

At times we need things to enable control. wether it be from expierance, soprts, education or Love. Control is needed to allow relationships to be happy healthy living happy.

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THIS IS WHAT SHE LEARNED OVER THE YEARS & ABOUT BULLIES

LEARNINGS

A history told,  is mainly made up. Yes some of it is true, plenty of it is true. But what is true. Which parts do we believe to be true. And why is all the rest of  it un-true.

  1. She has learned not to believe everything she is told or everything she has read.
  2. She has learned everything needs fill-ins, to grandeur it’s purpose.
  3. Everybody likes to tell their story how they want. True or false.

How many little added touch-up’s  do we add into something we are telling? What is it . . .To spice it up?

Hundreds and thousands of things are not FAIR!, in this life. carpet baggers, , i don’t know. She thinks like that. Should she run a country, things would not be like that. Un-fair. should she be QUEEN. She thinks about that. She thinks as QUEEN, a quadrant of footmen be at her side at all times. Fully armored. SPIT ON THE GROUND NOW BOY

As QUEEN-PICK IT UP!  Watch my guardsmen.

  1. She has learned all rules are broken mainly by our RULERS of this planet.
  2. She has learned no officials care how unfair the ECONOMICS are for us.
  3. she has learned the importance in REALLY WANTING TO LEARN IN SCHOOL. With the bullies.

 Learn how to deal with the bullies.

The hard way. Her way.

By letting everybody see how i will not let the BULLY take me down. She holds her head high in public, keeps her eyes focused on her path.  She will turn her head if she hears her name but not for anything else.    Just her name… Get it. What is the bully going to do? This is what she LEARNED!

  1. Is the bully going to Chase, her down the hall like a madman?
  2. Is the bully going to continue yelling out shit as she continues on like she hasn’t got a clue as to what is going on because her name was not called?
  3. Is the bully going to look and sound like they are on some kind of BRAIN KILL  yelling out in a crowd of people by themselves?

So this may cause this raging bully to wait for you after school or somewhere in the school when you are by yourself. { GOOD}! You are alone. Don’t you get it?  LEARN THIS. Learn it good. Learn it now. Learn it like she did.

You now have hundreds and thousands of OPTIONS standing right at your side. Never forget that. They are yours.

  • DO NOTHING UNTIL THEY DO     NOTHING AT ALL
  • ASK PROUDLY OH YOU GOING THERE TOO
  • KEEP YOUR CORE STRAIGHT! STAND BIG AND PROUD
  • WAIT

HERE IS WHAT SHE LEARNS

  1. SOMETIMES THEY BACK DOWN
  2. SOMETIMES THEY JUST HAVE WORDS
  3. SOMETIMES THEY ARE THERE TO KICK YOUR ASS.

SO WHERE DID SHE GO?  She went [Berserk].   She said why not. Why not . . .Why not see how strong i really am that i think i am. I kind of always wanted to know what it would be like to kick ass. If they are going to hit me i am going to hit back. She thought what if it hurts. She thought they will heal, so will i. But she LEARNED

  1. Never ever make the first move. Never
  2. Never be smart in the mouth. EVER!
  3. Wait to see their first move towards you. cause now you know the fight is on.

She has learned what ever step taken toward her, she will get there first!

You use your arms and hands keep your legs strong.

TO GRAB IN BOTH HANDS A HOLD OF THEIR CLOTHS AND THROW THEM ON THE FLOOR    AWAY FROM YOU

NOW KEEP YOUR STANCE   TELL THEM    SCARE THE SHIT OUT OF THEM   TELLING THEM NOT TO GET UP OR ELSE[MAKE SHIT UP MAN]

Like you will tear them new arm-pits. or break their balls, whatever.

But she learned . . .Should this kind of encounter happen.

  1. Be prepared to maybe get hurt you will heal
  2. Be prepared to be able to protect you. AND TAKE A HIT.
  3. be prepared to know when the battle begins and when it ends.

Battles always end until a new one starts.  Plus we get tired our muscles get sore so we need to put a stop to the fight fast.

She is not afraid of bullies at all, she is afraid of politics and what they do to us.  Over the years she has learned.The most important thing in life is not to allow any bully to have their bully fun ways using her. Just  BERSERK

  • If you have to show them who and what you are do it!
  • If you can lift 50 pounds then you can take care of yourself.
  • Because if you can lift 50 pounds you can hit or push or kick or what ever with 50 pound impact!    May be  more.
  • It all depends on how you JUST BERSERK

LESSON well LEARNED i hope.

But she also learned at times bullies become your friend.   What?

This is what she has learned over the years & about bullies. Thousands of them do not have REAL FRIENDS they do not know how to make friends but why should they  . . .Bullies think and believe everyone has to be their friend. They can not understand why shouldn’t everyone give them what they want. They think who are YOU not to.

She has learned this all starts at home. Bullies are created through over the years from home. HOW AND WHY YOU SAY.

DURING  “PLAY TIME”  WITH MOMMY AND DADDY

AND OTHER THINGS.